Whitney Houston was found dead in a hotel room on Saturday 11 February but she did not die from Drugs. Find out what YOU may have that is dangerously in common with the sad star from an Intuitive Profiling position and read the five lessons I think we can all learn from her life and death.

I receive many questions about the existence of negative energy and the possibility for people to cast it upon you so that it impedes your plans, progress and success. I have addressed this topic before but felt the need to do so again because it comes up time and again on our chat line, Facebook and in our courses. The email below from a client completely captures the perceptions about negative energy and I hope the answer from Elizabeth, my highest guide, helps you if feel you have been burdened or affected by negative energy, just as it helped her.

I shared this on Facebook on Monday but Nicole, my business partner, thought it should be shared with you as this week’s newsletter due to the stress that many of us face no matter how we live. There is always space for grace rather than grievance in our lives, but it was my Highest Guide Elizabeth who reminded me of that during this incident.

I survived the weekend with kids so I thought I would share this insult I copped from a lady in a store yesterday when under my breath I mumbled to myself in frustration at how rude this person was being to the poor 20+ year old trying to serve her in the supermarket when she INSISTED on paying for all (over 20 items) individually to save money due to an ‘A Current Affair’ segment.

Now I mumbled under my breath –‘Allah’ - to keep my concept of ‘practice what you preach when you walk through life’ so as not to strangle her.

Her response:”Did you just swear in Muslim to me?”
Me: "No I did not.”
Her: “It sounded like it. I think you did. What did you say?”

We are all intuitive but only some of us choose to use this for our benefit. Likewise, we all have the ability to heal, but some are born with stronger capacity for this than others. Do your palms often burn, tingle or pulse? Does your intuition register to you as heat in various parts of your body or an itch between your eyebrows? Do you find that other people offload their worries to you because you are keen to help them, but then you are totally drained because you can’t shake their heavy energy?

If any of this happens to you, you are not just hot-blooded or prone to itchy skin! You may be a natural healer – and the best news is that you can unleash this remarkable power, control it and learn to use it ethically to help yourself and others if you choose to.

A few weeks ago I polled people on Facebook about what intuition was to them. 52 answered that it was a feeling/ instinct they got; 6 said it was their brain telling them what to do and no-one said it was complete rubbish! But what exactly is intuition?

Over the last few months I have been asked on many occasions what is both significant about a mentor and how do we ”find’’ them? After all, in my opinion the world is full to choking point of mentors who can help you build your wealth, your lifestyle, your future, your relationships - your everything! But who is good and who is right for you?

Sorry to be abrupt but who told you that you weren’t worth investing in? And why did you ever believe them? I’m so frustrated by situations I come across where people repeatedly believe that they are not worth investing in! My Guides and I have to wonder why so many people won’t invest in themselves. Whoever told you that you weren’t worth it??? Was it someone in your current life, in your past - or has it been you telling yourself that you’re not worth it?

Here’s a fact: by naturally and unconsciously living your life – just by existing - you invest fear in other people; you invest frustration in other people; you invest emotions in other people; you invest trust in other people; you invest love, inspiration and a whole range of feelings in others by your existence – so are you not totally worthy of it for yourself? To give worth and belief from you to you? Yes you are!!! And you need to do it!

It was the amazing Yves Saint Laurent who famously said “Fashions fade, style is eternal.” Growing up with three sisters, I learnt a lot – both good and bad - about fashion from an early age, but one thing we all did was attend deportment school and for that I am eternally grateful to my Mum. The enduring lesson that deportment school taught me is that once you know your style, by understanding your body, you can make fashion work for you, but it will never dictate to you.

It’s a lot like the social trends we navigate as we live as well – new parenting trends, new ways of relating socially, the latest exercise fads - all of these things that challenge the way we have done things in the past and thought we knew about, can throw us off course if we are not fundamentally confident in who we are and how we do things.

The search for answers in Spirituality can be a lot like checking out the latest fashions – trying various forms on for size because you are searching for something to make you feel comfortable on the outside without really looking at who you are, what your lifestyle is and what basic shapes and colours work for your body to establish your own style.

It’s the million dollar question and the one I am most frequently asked by people about their relationships – above how they find love, above why they can’t find love and above when they will find love. It is also consistently asked regardless of whether someone is in a relationship for a few months or for years – I had one lady aged in her early 80’s ask me whether she should stay in a relationship after being married for 42 years.

What I find fascinating about the question is the soul work and the mentality behind it. Part of the reason for writing this article is to clarify why you should not tolerate your relationship if you are asking this question, because people in healthy relationships simply don’t ask it.

Last night I was debating with myself about how arrogant I have been with a very personal situation I am in. I was thinking how much a certain person has been an intrusion into my current life and with that, how it affected my view of the future. I do not often get this rattled about things - yet this situation upset me enough to engage in an argument with a third party about it.